Democrats, Please Stop Discouraging Donations To Amy McGrath

Fellow democrats, I have a problem.

This chart is making its rounds on Twitter:

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The problem it seems is specifically on Twitter. I get where some of my friends are coming from, but it is problematic in my opinion.

For whatever reason, even though it’s only September, people have decided to go ahead and call the 2020 election in Kentucky for Mitch McConnell. People are saying that you should stop giving money to Amy McGrath and give money to some other campaigns where it would be easier to flip senate seats.

And that, in my opinion, is why Mitch McConnell always wins. People give up. In case you’ve been living under a rock for a long time, here’s the truth: it’s probably always been easier to flip other senate seats instead of Mitch McConnell’s.

Please donate to Amy McGrath if you want to.

Donating to a candidate that you want to win is not a waste of money. Money is how politicians maximize productivity and win votes. By all means, donate to Amy McGrath if you can. Some of us still live in Kentucky and would rather not call the election this early in September or give up on Amy McGrath. Surely you don’t expect Kentucky democrats to stop donating to Amy McGrath and give money to only those other campaigns where it’s easier to flip seats?

I’m begging you, fellow democrats. Please stop discouraging voters from donating to Amy McGrath’s campaign. How are Kentuckians supposed to ever elect someone else with this attitude in our own party? Do we always have to get sacrificed just because it would be easier to go for other races in other states? If you want to encourage other donations to other campaigns, great! But please stop discouraging this specific donation. It is counter-productive.

I love you, Twitter. I’m not sure what happened this time, but stop handing the election to Mitch McConnell, especially this early. It’s only September, guys.

I’ve voiced my opinion about this on Twitter, and I don’t think people agree with me. I’m still going to try.

How are your local senate races going?

I hope that your local elections go well in your own states, and I encourage you to donate for your local hopeful. Also, if you do have the money and you would like to donate to Amy McGrath’s campaign, I encourage you to do so.

Are you voting this election? If you’re not, you should. Are you voting by mail? In-person? Leave me a comment and let me know. Have you donated to any of your local senate races? The presidential campaign? If you’re not in the US, how’s the view? How are things going on your end?

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Should I Try Martial Arts?

I’m 33 years old. I’ve never done any martial arts training or even been in a fight. I mentioned in a blog post recently that I’m exercising more at home. The thing is, it’s not really working for me. I mean, I’ve not been doing it that long but I feel like I need more structure. I think the reason the gym (or home gym) isn’t working is because I’m trying to teach myself, and I’m just not inherently good at the gym. I’ve taught myself lots of things. HTML. Blogging. Twitter. Video editing. But the gym just isn’t in the cards on my own. A personal trainer could definitely help. It would be the least disruptive choice. It’s not the most exciting thing, but it would work.

Or I could do something super crazy and try to learn Jiu Jitsu, Krav Maga, kick-boxing, or Karate, or something. It would be a lot. I work full-time and I’m in grad school. But, let’s say I could work it out to where I go twice a week to learn whatever martial art. That’s about as often as I should really be going to the gym, and it might be more fun. One of my professors in my graduate program takes Jiu Jitsu and she seems to really like it.

I said it MIGHT be more fun. I don’t know.

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Louisville has a lot of martial arts places.

Right. So, I’m looking up Jiu Jitsu and Krav Maga classes in Louisville and I’ve found a couple of places. One place looks super professional and nice. I sent them an annoying email inquiring about classes for adults who are complete beginners and don’t even know which end is up on the pullup bar at the gym. They haven’t responded yet. I might call them sometime tomorrow and just ask my weird questions all awkward like over the phone.

I’m fairly certain I’ll need some new wardrobe and maybe some guards for various body parts. I think also some gloves? That might also be jumping the gun. I have no idea. These MMA gloves seem popular on Amazon. Just so you know, I’m a member of the Amazon Associates Program and may earn money from qualifying purchases with the ad for the gloves below.

I looked up belt progression because I think that Jiu Jitsu and Krav Maga have belt systems to track progress, but I wasn’t sure if that was real or just something I saw in a movie or whatever. They do, but I don’t see any mention of this belt system on this one martial arts place’s website. Maybe they don’t do it there or maybe a belt color system is just a given for all martial arts classes.

What am I supposed to look for in a martial arts school?

I confess I have no idea what I should be looking for other than:

  • Does the martial arts place’s leadership have diversity or is it only ran by cis-gendered straight men? If it does only have straight men, then why?
  • How much do classes cost?
  • How big are the class sizes? Do they teach all newbies together, or do they teach all skill levels together but keep track of people’s progress individually?
  • What belts do the trainers have? How does testing for new belts work?
  • Are they associated with a national group or are they a stand-alone school?
  • How much time will this take up? Can I fit it in my schedule?
  • Are the students assholes? Are the trainers assholes? If so, why?

Also, do I refer to it as a gym? A dojo? A school? I tried to look it up but I wasn’t able to find much consistency.

Which martial art do I pick? Karate? Brazilian Jiu Jitsu? Krav Maga?

I don’t want to settle on a particular art yet. However, if I had to pick one based off of what I can find available here in Louisville, I’d pick Krav Maga. Brazilian Jiu Jitsu seems cool, too, but seems more competition-based than self-defense based. Again, I am new to all of this so who knows? I’m sure it’s mostly advertising keywords anyway.

My gym hasn’t opened back up yet and so I have some extra money to see about trying out some martial arts for a little while. Maybe I’ll like it? Maybe I won’t? I don’t know. It’s not a dream of mine to be a master at it super soon or anything. I’m just looking for ways to keep things interesting. I also really want to lower my cholesterol.

I will let you know what I find out, which gym (dojo? school?) I end up trying out. If I can’t seem to find a place that I click with, I might just move on and stick with the resistance-band exercises at home until my gym downtown opens back up or the gym my apartment property is building opens.

Do you like Jiu Jitsu or Krav Maga?

Perhaps you prefer something else? Do you prefer the gym? The couch? Comment below and let me know, because I’m curious about all of it. The gym is still super new to new, and so is this martial arts idea. You can contact me via my contact page, follow me on Twitter, or like my page on Facebook.

Also, this has nothing to do with the fact that I’ve been watching Cobra Kai on Netflix and it’s pretty awesome.

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On-Campus versus Online Universities

COVID19 is real and you should wear a face mask and stay 6 feet apart from people that you don’t live with, at least until your local governor lifts the mask mandate. Now that that’s out of the way, a lot of people are opting to continue their education online this year. I also have friends’ whose first-year college kids decided to go in-person but to stay at a local community college instead of going to their dream university right away. Either way, college is a little different this year. Are you on the fence about a traditional on-campus experience or choosing one of the online universities?

First of all, most universities that are regionally accredited, no matter if the university is an online university or a traditional on-campus university, will accept federal student aid and you will have to fill out the FAFSA. I wrote a blog post about how financial aid works here.

I got my bachelors degree in-person at a state university. State universities are usually nonprofit and usually regionally accredited. I’m getting my masters degree online at an online university. This online university is also nonprofit and is regionally accredited. My roommate is getting his masters degree from a state university but his program is mostly online this year. Our online experiences are very different because our colleges have different online approaches.

Online Programs All Do Things Differently

All online universities have different approaches from one another. Do not assume all online programs are the same style. My online university doesn’t prioritize lectures. They have them, but attendance isn’t a requirement. (I know, crazy, right?) I still do as many live lectures as I can. When I can’t, there’s usually a recorded lecture for me to watch. There’s not a lot of wiggle room in my program for other classes – my program is my program and I just have to do it. My roommate has a little more leeway with his classes, but not much. He also has to go to campus one or twice a month. I’m not sure why. I don’t completely understand his program. I think he just has that “one professor” who is preferring to do his class in-person or something.

When I was getting my bachelors in-person, I had so much leeway I didn’t really know what to do half the time. One semester that messed me up pretty bad. Most of the time it was kind of nice to be able to look into different interests every now and then, though.

You’ll Need To Figure Out Your Study Habits

You’ll need to figure out how to study best based on your program style. When I was doing in-person classes, generally I just did the reading and went to class and didn’t study much. The lectures were helpful. The discussions were even more helpful. I could ask questions in-person and get an answer with a face that came with emotion.

In my online program, I generally do the reading and watch the lectures as well. However, the lectures don’t help as much as they did when I was in-person. Also, the lectures usually aren’t really over the reading content. The lectures are more “additional information” or how to navigate certain things, or tips with the best way to approach the material in the course.

That’s fine and it still works. I have always been pretty good at reading through everything myself and making sense of the material eventually. Some people may not be very good at that.

Your Equipment Needs Will Vary

For my in-person undergraduate degree, I took notes in a Moleskine notebook. I tried a laptop every now and then but I was more at home with a notebook. For my online program, I needed a laptop. I chose a Surface Pro 7 so that I could handwrite some things with the stylus and touch screen.

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Adjust Your Expectations For Social Interaction

On a much more depressing note, there is hardly any social interaction in my online program. A few of us made a little Slack group and we complain about classes and keep up with each other in that, but that’s about it. My graduate advisor calls me every week and makes sure I’m doing alright. I can always reach out if I need to. My roommate’s online program has more social interaction because his lectures are more designed to replace in-person classes.

Some Online Universities Let You Accelerate Your Classes

On much more happy note, I find I’m getting through the material a little faster since my program doesn’t prioritize traditional lectures. Western Governor’s University is “competency-based”. To them, that means if I pass the assessments, I get credit for the class. The amount of time I spend in a class isn’t weighted at all. A month and a half into my program, I’ve essentially completed an entire semester of full-time graduate classes. (Full-time for graduate students is 9 credit hours.) The classes are getting harder as they go, though. It’s looking like I might get done with my program in a year instead of 2 years. Not all online universities are competency-based. In fact, they’re quite rare and are a newer idea.

Be aware that the phrase “accelerating” is generally for marketing purposes. There’s no real set standard for “accelerating”. All universities handle it differently. What one university considers accelerating won’t necessarily be what another one considers it to be. Sometimes universities may also use other terms in its place, like “fast-tracking”. Don’t choose your school based on the advertising of accelerating. Plan on the program taking you the normal amount of time: 4 years for an undergraduate degree, 2 years for a masters degree, 3 years or more for a PhD.

Online Universities Work Well For Some People

In some ways I would have preferred an in-person on-campus program, but then again I’m not sure what I benefited from with my in-person program for my English degree. I still got lost in the shuffle as an older student and didn’t get to take advantage of many of the on-campus opportunities. I think that has more to do with my personality than my age.

What’s more important than online vs in-person is the school’s accreditation and if they are nonprofit or for profit. I do not have experience with for-profit universities and don’t know much about them. For profit universities aren’t inherently evil in theory, though, so as long as you do your research on your program and you’re okay its accreditation status, you will probably be okay.

You can ask current and former students about their programs at all the universities that interest you. If you’re getting your masters degree, I would double check with any future PhD programs you are specifically interested in to make sure they will accept your degree from your master’s program when applying. Most of the time, PhD programs like working with you as long as your program is accredited and you can product some sort of transcript showcasing at least a 3.0 GPA, or the equivalent of a 3.0 GPA.

I’m Looking Into In-Person State Universities for my PhD

I’m personally looking into in-person PhD programs at state universities instead of online PhD programs at online universities. I like getting MBA online, but I want experience teaching while I get my PhD, which is something you will miss out on in most online masters and PhD programs.

Do I prefer in-person or online universities? Personally, I still recommend in-person programs for your undergraduate degree. They force you out of your shell a little and better prepare you for bureaucracy you’ll experience out there in the real world. For masters programs, online classes or online universities can really make things easier and less stressful for you if you’re the right person for them. You will, however, miss out on some networking benefits and teaching experience.

I’d love to do a comparison of the undergraduate level and the graduate level. Unfortunately, my programs are so different there’s really not a good and fair way to do it. This blog post is probably all I’ll be able to give you about it for now.

Is there anything you would like to know about online universities or in-person universities? Or is there anything else you’d like to know about college? All I have is my experience in my programs, but I’m happy to share. Leave a comment below if you have more questions or want me to blog about anything else.

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